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Post by jenna on Sept 24, 2008 0:30:59 GMT -5
I really don't think it's appropriate to be talking about getting high. Sorry VO =/
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Post by Lady Amber on Oct 23, 2008 1:08:01 GMT -5
I just got dumped also, for telling the police on my boyfriend being a Drug Seller. I was trying to be help him, but he dumped me a while ago at the Police Office, and on top of that he could me a liar. I want to know from the girls of VO, if I should try and chase after him or end the relationship there. I known him all my life now, and we started dating from like 10.
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Post by Jackaroo on Oct 23, 2008 1:22:14 GMT -5
M'kay. I'm a guy, but I would say end it there. If he wants to screw himself over, let him do that, don't get involved any more and screw yourself up.
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Post by jenna on Oct 23, 2008 16:23:20 GMT -5
I just got dumped also, for telling the police on my boyfriend being a Drug Seller. I was trying to be help him, but he dumped me a while ago at the Police Office, and on top of that he could me a liar. I want to know from the girls of VO, if I should try and chase after him or end the relationship there. I known him all my life now, and we started dating from like 10. Atleast he didnt knock you up. And then decide he doesnt wanna be with you. He's just mad at you for telling the police, as anyone would be =/ Never... ever, chase after a guy. Don't waste your life for someone who isnt willing to do the same.
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Post by VanillaOrchids on Oct 23, 2008 18:20:51 GMT -5
I just got dumped also, for telling the police on my boyfriend being a Drug Seller. I was trying to be help him, but he dumped me a while ago at the Police Office, and on top of that he could me a liar. I want to know from the girls of VO, if I should try and chase after him or end the relationship there. I known him all my life now, and we started dating from like 10. I can't recommend that you go after him because if he is selling drugs, there is nothing good that can come from being with him. Surely there is someone else out there for you.
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Post by Lady Amber on Oct 23, 2008 18:47:54 GMT -5
Yea, everyone is telling me that. I seriously I won't chase after him, he don't know what he is losing and I won't be waiting for him. He told me to get over him, when he gets out he shall be moving on. But since this is his first time and he is a minor, he only needs to attend their classes at the Police Station. I am going to try to move on with my life.
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Post by jenna on Oct 24, 2008 11:25:33 GMT -5
Just think about it this way.
If you dont move on now and you actually end up marrying the guy or something, then what? You wouldn't have a life to get on to. If he doesn't want to be with you, even if he's just saying it because he's mad, then that means there probably wasn't a chance of it ever working out. The first time Bradley left me I was too stupid to realize that he would do it again. If theres any doubt in soemones mind about breaking up then its just not MEANT to be. You can't make it happen.
So dont chase after him, and don't expect him to miss you and want you back and feel bad for leaving you because again, chances are, he might not... so its better to just move on and not expect anything.
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Post by Lady Amber on Oct 24, 2008 12:40:13 GMT -5
Just think about it this way. If you dont move on now and you actually end up marrying the guy or something, then what? You wouldn't have a life to get on to. If he doesn't want to be with you, even if he's just saying it because he's mad, then that means there probably wasn't a chance of it ever working out. The first time Bradley left me I was too stupid to realize that he would do it again. If theres any doubt in soemones mind about breaking up then its just not MEANT to be. You can't make it happen. So dont chase after him, and don't expect him to miss you and want you back and feel bad for leaving you because again, chances are, he might not... so its better to just move on and not expect anything. Yea, I kind of figured it was time for me to move on. He cheated numerous of times, even one of his second girlfriends called my house and was like he was her man. So, now I am just going to focus on School rather then a boyfriend.
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Post by jenna on Oct 24, 2008 13:26:58 GMT -5
Wow. I can honestly say Brad never cheated on me, eh. Maybe if he had I wouldve quit earlier, but it's whatever.
That's always good. I ended up giving up school for the boyfriend Bad idea.
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Post by Lady Amber on Oct 24, 2008 22:03:09 GMT -5
Me too, I began to drop heavily in my school work, to satisfy my boyfriend. I use to avoid school and and everything, but now I shall try to cooperate more in school and be happy that I got a second Chance to attend a Private School.
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Post by Add Mint on Oct 24, 2008 23:00:14 GMT -5
Lol wow you guys have a lot of drama. I live in a quiet town and nothing happens. At least, I stay on the good side of things. I would NEVER give up school for a guy. I think that's one of the things I would NEVER do because you basically mess yourself over. Haha So Jenna are you going to keep the baby or give it up for adoption? I'm glad you didn't abort it. I'm pro-life so yea. Although It's not that smart to do things with a guy your not devoted to, like marriage or something. IDK, those are just my views...
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Post by jenna on Oct 25, 2008 0:49:35 GMT -5
OH, hell yes. I'm keeping him all the way. I have to say that I know I can give my baby more love and take care of him better than anyone. I've thought about it but I couldn't give him up for adoption, I just cant wait till he gets here =)
Well I had to quit school anyway, and I decided if I just did homeschool I could spend more time with my son and be healthier, and I wouldnt have to worry about school when I have him or anything. So I quit about 3 days into the year.
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