jenna
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Post by jenna on Sept 2, 2008 14:09:03 GMT -5
It's so freaking annoying... I mean we've been together for 2+ years. And I've tried to think that, ok when he starts college we can do this, we can make it through that, we've been through, are going through, worse.
It's only the 2nd day and I'm regretting everything.
He won't get off the Xbox to get on msn, he wont text me back because he's playing xbox, his stupid roommates wont stop talking when I call him to talk for 5 minutes at night... I hate it. I hate how he wont take the time to realize how I'm feeling and how I miss him, too. And he knew what stuff he was gonna have to deal with when he moved that far away (only like 50 minutes, but still) when he couldve went to the other one thats like 10 minutes away, and he wouldnt have to move. I hate it.
And my mom keeps getting mad because I'm trying to control him or something and I'm thinking, when you date someone for 2 years, knock them up, and then move that far away... um, yeah, it's not all about YOU anymore... you've got OTHER PEOPLE to deal with. Apparently he doesn't get that
I just needed to rant, geez. I'm so sick of this and I don't want to end it kinda cant yet, and I really do care about him, it's just so freakin hard.
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Post by Jordie on Sept 2, 2008 15:48:25 GMT -5
Ahh, its only the first week. I reckon he is making new friends and having a good time with them.
Give it some time and things should cool down, and you can get back into the routine you had before.
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Post by jenna on Sept 2, 2008 20:15:58 GMT -5
Friends? As long as their not girls... I'm not allowed to be with other guys. So whatever. And it's not like he's GOING anywhere, he's at his apartment... doing nothing but eating and playing video games. I hate it.
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Post by VanillaOrchids on Sept 3, 2008 14:00:14 GMT -5
Maybe he is just really overly excited about this bit of freedom he may feeling being away at college. I wouldn't consider 50 minutes far away at all but I guess if you are not able to drive up to see him from time to time then I guess it would seem like he was far away.
Like Jordie said though, just give him some time to adjust and then if he still can't/won't find the time to talk to you then he is being a jerk.
As for what your mom said, about you trying to control him, well from what you said it doesn't sound like you are trying to control him just keep in touch with him. Which I can't blame you since you are, after all, having his baby.
I hope things get better!
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jenna
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Post by jenna on Sept 3, 2008 15:11:26 GMT -5
I just dont understand, I guess... It's like, you're always willing to give up everything for someone but they wont give up five minutes to just talk to you?
And my mom is always siding with him, I don't know why, afterall, Im her kid. It's always, be nice to brad, go fix brad food, dont make brad do that, he doesnt want to.
Crap like that, it's stupid.
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Post by ryder on Sept 3, 2008 15:18:54 GMT -5
you 15 right that's way too young for you to have a baby you are still a baby your self at 15 oh well hope it all work out for ya..good luck..am 35 and i have a 15 yr old son and if he told me he make a 15 yr old girl with baby i will go through the roof..
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Post by jenna on Sept 3, 2008 16:06:45 GMT -5
you 15 right that's way too young for you to have a baby you are still a baby your self at 15 oh well hope it all work out for ya..good luck..am 35 and i have a 15 yr old son and if he told me he make a 15 yr old girl with baby i will go through the roof.. Well, that's nice, it's due in January so I'm pretty sure I've already heard that, but thanks =)
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cota
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Post by cota on Sept 17, 2008 16:08:41 GMT -5
I just dont understand, I guess... It's like, you're always willing to give up everything for someone but they wont give up five minutes to just talk to you? And my mom is always siding with him, I don't know why, afterall, Im her kid. It's always, be nice to brad, go fix brad food, dont make brad do that, he doesnt want to. Crap like that, it's stupid. Kids.. o man.. Mine is er.. 1 yr now I hardly see her. Well sometimes.. My ex had the same problem with me. But with me It wasn't college I was high alot. And things don't go so well lol. Anyway goodluck =]
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jenna
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Post by jenna on Sept 19, 2008 2:47:50 GMT -5
Yeah, he did that a lot when we first started dating... it wasn't an all the time kind of thing but, I wasn't into it and I didn't like it and I was scared everytime he left the house cause I didn't want him driving high.
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cota
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Post by cota on Sept 19, 2008 19:47:25 GMT -5
Drive high usually im to lazy to move.. Must of taken alot of effort XD
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jenna
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Post by jenna on Sept 19, 2008 21:27:36 GMT -5
hahah yea. he was pretty lazy.
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Crupocalypse
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Post by Crupocalypse on Sept 21, 2008 21:36:37 GMT -5
Drive high usually im to lazy to move.. Must of taken alot of effort XD i love driving high its exciting.
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Post by jenna on Sept 21, 2008 21:50:36 GMT -5
Drive high usually im to lazy to move.. Must of taken alot of effort XD i love driving high its exciting. I live on a really straight road, and then out of no where, theres a sharp turn and its on the edge of a hill. Every night theres about 20 kids that try to race up and down it, majority of them high, and we probably have a wreck about every week or so. I've seen way too many of my friends rolled up in a ball with their car because of driving too fast or driving when they're high, and it's not something I care to see my boyfriend in.
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Post by Crupocalypse on Sept 23, 2008 21:51:39 GMT -5
Oh I live in a small town. There are a couple roads like that around here but I usually just drive to go to the small skatepark we have out here. Then I skate, and racing high would destroy me. Thats just a BAD IDEA. Hopefully he realizes that he shouldnt be doing it.
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Post by VanillaOrchids on Sept 23, 2008 23:48:03 GMT -5
I really don't think it's appropriate to be talking about getting high.
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